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Obituary for Tammy Lively

HOWE – Tammy Rose Lively, 55, of Howe became an angel among us Dec. 1, 2021 in Spiro, and was born April 20, 1966 in Torrence, California to the late Duke and Marlene DuCommun.

No services are scheduled at this time.

Tammy leaves behind her husband, Kenny Lively, Sr. of Howe; her brother Anthony and his wife Stacy DuCommun; her great aunt, Sandra Carey of Poteau; her daughter Holley and husband Bill Gerdes and her five children Briana, Zhane, Madison, Riley and Baylee Gerdes, all of Howe; Danielle and her spouse Christie Lively, Melanie and Steven and their daughter Symphony Ford of Wister; Crystal and Dalton Copeland of Howe; Carl Gerdes and his daughter Aurora of Wisconsin; and her bonus children include Tammy Parrot and her sons Jay and Joseph Parrott of Illinois; Diane and Scott Sandell of Howe, their children Amber, Valerie, Julia, Robert and Sarah, Jesse and Markie; her son Malvin Gerdes of Howe, his daughter Chandra Bowen; more bonus children Danny his four childrenย  and Amandaย  and her four children of California; and Kenneth Gerdes of Oklahoma and his two children; Tammy left behind over 25 great grand children; her best friends Denise Cleveland, Cathy Carter, Sandra Marshall, and Donna Berard. Tammy Lively dedicated her life to helping others and making aย life for her children special.

Tammy is preceded in death by her parents; late husband, Malvin Gerdes; her sister, Wendy; and her son, Kenny Jr.; and many more loved ones. But she left behind a whole village!

To sign Tammyโ€™s online guestbook please visit www.dowdenrobertsfuneralhome.com.

3 Comments

  1. Donna Berard on December 7, 2021 at 6:44 am

    To all my beautiful goddaughters, You are your moms legacy & she loved you more then you will ever know. I love you & am here for all of ya 24/7.
    Kenny, Tammy loved you sooo much. She used to tell me all the time ” if you cut open my head & my heart 1,000 little Kennys would pop out”
    Tony, you and Tammy have a bond so special that time & space could never erase…..its a ” Tammy & Tony thang”
    Ben, you will always be our miracle big brother !!!
    I LOVE YOU ALL & although I will miss my bff of over 40+ years, I know she is in my forever eternity in heaven due to our lovimg relationship with Jesus, the King of Kings & the Lord of Lords. Intil I see you again Tammy ๐Ÿ’•๐Ÿ’œ๐Ÿ’•๐Ÿ’œ๐Ÿ’•๐Ÿ’œ

  2. Donna Berard on December 7, 2021 at 6:52 am

    Kenny, Tammy loved you sooo much. She used to tell me all the time that ” if you cut open my head & heart 1,000 little Kennys would pop out”
    My beautiful goddaughters,Holley, Danielle, Melanie, & Crystal, you are your mom legacy & she loved you ladies more then you will ever know.
    Benny, you are the best miracle big brother
    Tony, you & Tammy have a spe ial bond that can never be erased by time or space. “Its a Tammy / Tony thang”
    I loved Tammy for over 40 years & I will miss her soo much, but I take great comfort in knowing she is in my forever eternity in heaven due to the relationship we shared with Jesus our Lord & Savior.
    I LOVE EACH & EVERYONE OF YA ๐Ÿ’œ๐Ÿ’•๐Ÿ’œ๐Ÿ’•๐Ÿ’œ๐Ÿ’•

  3. Julie Davis on December 7, 2021 at 12:32 pm

    She was a lovely lady. Thank you for allowing me to become a part of her world.

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